Time to hear from our sex correspondent Kerri Sackville. Kerri writes…. As long as it involves two consenting adults, it sounds like a fine idea. How does the whole thing actually work? I mean, how do two people begin their swinging careers? Do they choose a couple and decide they want to have sex with them?
Here's how to inoculate ourselves against negative ones. Verified by Psychology Today. The Swinging Paradigm. I hear this often from people who know of my research with the swinging population, which they consider deviant and suspicious. I have compiled hundreds and hundreds of hours of interviews with couples in the swinging lifestyle, and one of my first questions is how did the couple get involved in the swinging lifestyle, and how is the wife handling it. Moreover, did the wife have a choice in the matter, or did she just go along to please her husband? So what happens when the couple starts swinging?
For some couples, the idea of having sex with anyone other than your significant other seems unfathomable. But believe it or not, it can, and there are more couples interested in doing it than you may realize. Below, four women get real about what their own swinging experiences were really like.
I hope everyone is on track to crushing your goals for ! When I first heard the term "swingers," it was on a talk show and I thought it was a crazy concept, like you might as you are reading this. However, before bashing swingers, listen to how it could benefit some of you.